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Embarking on the journey of wearing modest attire, especially for new hijabis and reverts to Islam, is a significant and deeply personal decision. Even when many muslim women look to follow the divine command to covert, this transition, comes with its set of challenges—financial, social, psychological, and professional depending on one goal and working environment. For so many of us, understanding and preparing for these obstacles  can make the journey smoother and more fulfilling, while collecting blessings from Allah (SWT).​

Financial Burden​

Switching to a modest wardrobe can be financially demanding, especially if you’re starting from scratch. For many new hijabis and reverts, the need to purchase a whole new set of clothing that adheres to modesty standards—longer skirts, dresses, tunics, and of course, hijabs—can strain the budget. Obviously, it is recommended to gradually upgrade your closet with basics that can be worn across settings. Therefore, It’s essential to approach this transition strategically:​

• Prioritize Essentials: Start with a few versatile pieces that can be mixed and matched. High-quality basics like long-sleeve tops, maxi skirts, and neutral-colored hijabs will form the backbone of your wardrobe. However, keep your personal style as a cornerstone with essentials that make you feel feminine and modest.​
• Thrift and Second-Hand Shops: These can be gold mines for affordable, modest clothing. Many pieces can be found gently used and at a fraction of the retail price. Check in your areas for second-hand stores such as Plato’s Closet which are available across many states in the USA and provinces in Canada.​
• Sales and Discounts: Keep an eye out for sales at modest fashion retailers and online marketplaces. Sign up for newsletters to get alerts on discounts and special offers. It is important to do price comparison and have patience. Bookmark, like, and add pieces that you love in your online accounts, and look for sales and seasonal markdowns to purchase the pieces that complement your wardrobe.​

Social and Psychological Challenges​

The decision to start wearing modest attire can also bring about social and psychological challenges. For new hijabis and reverts, it’s not just a change in wardrobe, but often a visible declaration of faith that can lead to mixed reactions from friends, family, and society. ​

• Support System: Surround yourself with supportive friends and community members who understand and respect your decision. Joining local or online support groups can provide invaluable encouragement, advice, and help you feel less isolated and misundertood in your journey. Always remember that your are covering to obey Allah (SWT) first.​
• Confidence and Self-Esteem: Adjusting to a new way of dressing can impact your self-esteem. It’s crucial to remember why you made this choice and to find strength in your faith. There will be days, you will feel less attractive, wanting to put back the fake eye lashes, the arcilic nails, that tight jeans that reveal your beautiful feminine shape. Just remember that it is the work of Shaytan and his minions. They work over time to make everything forbidden appealing to us so we can derail father from the path of faith and righteouness. Just know, over time, as you become more comfortable with your new attire, your confidence will grow. You will feel a sense of plentitude and gratitude for making the decision to shield your beautiful from the sight of ​
• Dealing with Negativity: Unfortunately, in the age of social media where everything is glam and fame, revealing your new you may come with the backlash and some of us may face negativity from our intimate circle of friends or even discrimination. It’s important to be prepared for these situations and to have strategies in place for coping. Staying calm and steadyfast. If needed, put on the hat of teacher by educating those who are open to learning. Seeking support from your community, therapist in the same faith, or even joining groups at your local mosque can help navigate these experiences. Always remember that you are being rewarded for following your faith and you are stronger than even as you hold on to Allah’s rope along the way.​

Navigating the Workspace

Switching to modest wear in the workplace introduces another layer of complexity. For many, the workplace is a setting that demands a balance between personal choices and professional expectations. For some of us who were in corporation and careers where promotions are tied to work politics and appearances, showing up with a hijab is a tag of defeance, communicating the new you that can be mislabelled as submissive and lack of ambission. Do not panic. Allah (swt) is the owner of Rizq and his rewards are limiteless and timeless. With patience, comes easy; therefore keep these in mind.​

1. Professional Attire: Invest in professional, modest clothing that aligns with your workplace dress code. This might include long skirts, blazers, and tailored trousers. Brands that specialize in modest fashion often offer professional collections designed for the office environment.​
2. Communication: Open and honest communication with your employer and colleagues can ease the transition. Explain your decision and be prepared to address any questions or concerns they may have. Most workplaces value diversity and inclusion, and your choice should be respected.​
3. Adaptation Period: Give yourself and your colleagues time to adapt. Change can be challenging, but patience and understanding from all parties can smooth the process. Showcasing your professionalism and competence will help reinforce that your attire does not impact your work performance.​

​Switching to modest wear as a new hijabi or revert is a multifaceted journey with financial, social, psychological, and professional dimensions. While it may initially present challenges, it’s also an empowering step towards living in accordance with your faith and values. By planning strategically, seeking support, and communicating effectively, you can navigate this transition with grace and confidence. Remember, it is a journey and the destination is Jannah.